Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

It’s Christmas Eve, and I’m thinking of my dad, who is no longer here in physical form. Growing up, Christmas often brought out a deep nostalgia in him. He would become sentimental, easily triggered, sometimes picking a fight with my mom, then breaking down in tears and walking away. Later, he’d return, and we’d carry on as if nothing had happened.

Remembering this has me thinking about friends who’ve shared that they don’t even feel like celebrating Christmas this year because life has been crazy.

The holidays can be heavy with expectations. And maybe what’s most healing is allowing ourselves to be imperfect and messy. Maybe success isn’t a picture-perfect day, but the simple act of showing up for one another anyway. Choosing love, even when our baggage makes us feel unlovable.

This is Fiery Living — meeting life as it is, leading with compassion, and choosing to show up anyway.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

Winter Solstice Reflections: Letting Go of Fear and Setting Brave Intentions for the Year Ahead

It’s December 21st, the Winter Solstice, and I’m taking a moment to reflect on the experiences of 2025 as I prepare to write my intentions for the year ahead.

2025 was an extremely complicated year.

My ego wants to call it a bat-shit crazy year.

But my inner wisdom reminds me that everything I experienced was necessary for my growth and evolution.

There were many hard moments and a lot of pain. That pain forced me to finally see and embrace truths about myself that I had pushed aside for many years. It opened me to trust, deep love, and vulnerability. For that, I am deeply grateful.

It’s frustrating how often we allow things to spiral before we take action. We run from pain, even though moving through discomfort is the only path to real joy. As I reflect, I see how long I’ve been living with outdated stories about who I am, what I want, and what I’m capable of.

Tonight, I acknowledge those old patterns and begin replacing them with new affirmations as I move gently into the new year.

I’ve created several intentions, but this one is my favorite:

I take brave, aligned action even when I feel afraid.

I’ve wasted too many good ideas and possibilities believing I wasn’t good enough. I worried about what others would think. I asked myself, Who the fuck am I to do this, share this, or be this?

Turning 50 has brought a clarity and courage I’ve never felt before. It’s clear now - this is not a dress rehearsal. This moment is all we have.

I want to live boldly. I want to die without regrets. And even when I fail, I want to know that I tried.

These words may sound cliché to some, but if you allow yourself to truly feel the energy of this moment, you know the wisdom behind them is real.

So here’s to giving “no fucks” in the year ahead, to taking bold risks even when I’m scared. Just naming this intention fills me with excitement.

I encourage you to set whatever intention feels empowering for you.

And if you’d like support getting started, I’ve created a quick guide to help you begin.

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Sending you so much love and light on the longest night of the year as we celebrate the rebirth of the sun, and interconnectedly, the rebirth of yourself.

Use the Energy of the Winter Solstice December 21st to Set Your 2026 Intentions

Feeling stuck? This isn’t your sign to push—it's your sign to pause.

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✨ The Winter Solstice + New Moon isn’t asking you to hustle.It’s asking you to listen.

This is the longest night of the year—when the light pauses before returning.And it’s actually the most powerful time to set intentions… not January 1.

If you’re feeling stuck, tired, or unsure about 2025, you’re not behind.You’re in the in-between—and that’s where clarity begins.

I created a free Winter Solstice Intention Guide to help you reflect, release, and choose what comes next—without pressure.

Let’s step into 2025 with intention, not exhaustion.

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